But it something we just have to deal with...Life is interesting...what to wear, where to go or for some, what color I will be painting my bike this week....either way, what it really comes down to is be yourself and there for that should create less confusion, since you oughta be pretty comfortable with yourself right? You are you....I hope...Stop worrying about what other people do and think...they don't live your life and neither are you living theirs...  ride on...