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Alright, do I choose my bike, or my girlfriend of 6 1/2 months... Im thinking my bike but im really unsure. I mean, i can only ride my bike when its nice out, but i can ride her whenever. And i cant take my bike outside in the rain, but i can take my girlfriend. And i dont have to clean/regrease my girlfriend. But im just kinda attached to my bike, so even though the odds are against my bike, im leaning towards it. Let me know what you guys think.
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Very true, only shitty part is that my bike doesnt buy me food. And my bike doesnt do the "unspoken things" i mean technically i could get a 24mm bb kit and go to town on that bad boy, but that costs money.
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You dont have to regrease her yet....trust me in time you'll have too
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handlebar-to-face wrote:You dont have to regrease her yet....trust me in time you'll have too
I hope this thread gets stickied for future reference.
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You shouldn't have to
Chose she shod like you enough to support your sport and even go to
The park to watch or film any chick or
In my case guy that makes u chose or quit over something u love should be kicked to the curb
Fuck u
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She just keeps saying how i care too much about my bike, and its kind of bullshit. Like sorry guys, i dont mean to start ranting on these forums about my relationship. But i was just kind of interested as to if anybody else has dealt with women not accepting your sport.
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is she making you decide between her or the bike? If so, ditch her because no real girlfriend would separate you from a hobby/sport you like. She's trying to make sure you know she's boss but just remember that all girls are fucking cunts. Don't let her push you around.
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hookjrclc wrote:You shouldn't have to
Chose she shod like you enough to support your sport and even go to
The park to watch or film any chick ...morebiggybuggy wrote:Wat
She doesn't know what punctuation or a run on sentence is. Took me reading it 3 times to figure it out. Final verdict is that it's easy to get booty so if that's what's keeping you I have some advice. You'll survive.
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Honestly, I was with a Girl for 4 1/2 Years & She literally drove Me Insane! I have suffered with depression for nearly 11 years & I was a little un-stable & Her constant bitching about "Wasting Money", "Spending More On That "Thing" Than Her" "Spending More Time With My Friends Riding Than Her" She was jealous of GUYS!!! Blokes that I Ride with! Don't even get Me started on being friends with other girls, Fucking Hell! I Just Split Up with A Girl I PROPOSED To! Because A. She "Couldn't Deal" with My Mental Health & B. Why Do You Have to Waste So Much Fucking Money... Yada, Yada, Yada!!! She went like full on Psycho at Me & properly hit Me below the belt with numerous things & We're through! I was pretty blown away by that! A Young Woman who claims to be all mega mature & can cope with everything & anything couldn't deal with the Fact I use Bikes to help Me cope with My Depression?!!?!?!?!?!?!? DAFUQ?!!! Seriously & ALL My Friends Agree With This!!! My Next Lady Of Choice WILL Have A FULL Psychiatric Evaluation before I even TOUCH Her haha. Women are great! Obviously they offer things Bikes can't but unless You find a total gem! Why The FUCK Should You Give Up On Your Bike?! Your Hobby, Passion etc! I BET You Were Riding Before You Met Her Correct?! Well I Say Fuck n Chuck Her! Have one more bite of the apple & then tell Her to Fuck Right Off Out Of Your Life & Carry on Riding Your Fucking Bike Mate!!!
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I had a gf that got pissed at me for riding....gettin laid all the time was good but eventually bailed on her....there's plenty of ladies out there if they get mad at you for riding and staying in shape that's ridiculous and unnecessary
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Seriously i'd say fuck dat hoe ass bitch.
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She hasnt done the whole "your bike, or me, pick one" thing yet. But i know its coming. Shes not really controlling or bossy over me, she mostly just complains about how i dont do every damn thing she asks of me.i dont plan on leaving her over this, but if she continues to try to put herself before my hobbies, i cant be with a girl like that. She has separation anxiety, but she mostly complains about me not talking to her for hours, and less about not hanging out with her. Shes a weird girl, but i love her. I just hope she gets over me actually wanting to go out, and ride my bike with the guys. Its really annoying sitting at the park and knowing shes pissed as all hell.
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In all seriousness, if your girlfriend of over half a year has a problem with you doing something you love, then you don't need her.
If she's not gonna understand that you want to ride & be okay with that, then what's to say she won't do the same in the future? Maybe you find another hobby later down the road that she doesn't like, are you just going to quit doing everything you like to appease her, when at the same time being upset you can't do things you'd like? Think about it.
I had a girlfriend a few months ago who was mindblown at the fact that I kept my bike in the house because people would steal it if I left it outside, then further mindblown at the fact of how much money gets put into this stuff. She also wanted to see me seriously all the time including when I was riding, and even wanted me to come home from the skate park early just to come hang out with her. I'm fine with seeing them often, but when I'm trying to have a riding day, that's a no. She didn't like that obviously, felt unimportant, so I ended that shit asap. No other girl I've been with had a problem with me riding & often making plans with them, balancing them out.
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sundaybmxRR wrote:In all seriousness, if your girlfriend of over half a year has a problem with you doing something you love, then you don't ...more
I just dont understand why women are so evil.
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Why not both? Did she told you choose or what?
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lets say you choose her, things go great and you have a great relationship. Then one day you come home and shes banging you best mate. you are left with no girl, AND no bike. And that is a grim situation. At the end of the day, you gotta realise, woman ARE NOT everything. Never give up hobbys/important things for them, because they can come and go in a flash, and you'll be left with nothing.
Ive been with my girl for a year and 6months soon (next saturday!!) which seems a long time, but straight away i made it clear, if its a sunny day she knows where im going. She's welcome to come along, but she knows im there to ride, not spend time with her. The trick is to try see them as much as you can around riding. Say nights. I ride till it gets dark,, maybe slightly after, then i come home and spend my night with her (I do live with my girl so its slightly different but still). just remember, you (and your hobby) comes first (MOST of the time....), wheres my girl comes second only to riding. Although, im planning on having a job in bmx (im 19, i can still dream) so she knows its not something that im going to drop. ever.
also. My girl recently mentioned about my bike going in a shed outside. i was not happy. even my skater friend couldnt see why not. I tried explaining that its £1000+ surrounded by wood, and its WORTH more to me than that. Its my baby that ive put hours and hours of blood sweat and tears (litterally!) and she still doesnt get it quite. But i made my point. It is NOT going anywhere but inside!!!
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What happens when you get rid of your bike and she finds something else to complain about. Are you ready to give up your car or your tv or your computer or going out with friends or any other little thing you care about?
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