Xxohioanxx wrote:
I changed my profile picture on Facebook and this bitch called me 7 times, texted me 5 times, and messaged me 10 times in a ...more
Xxohioanxx wrote:
I changed my profile picture on Facebook and this bitch called me 7 times, texted me 5 times, and messaged me 10 times in a rage.
This other girl is a lying cunt.
Fuck it, I'll post the story about the second girl since I already posted the story about the first girl, and the story about the second girl is pretty much done at this point. I'm probably going to regret this but I need to let it out.
There were a fucking shit ton of red flags I was too blind to see, so it should be entertaining for you guys. Also, she's been brought up many times on these forums before.
I met her like two and a half years ago in physics class and holy shit, she was perfect. Super smart, nice, pretty cute, etc. We started talking every day in class for like two weeks, her being super flirty and shit. So eventually I added her on Facebook. She messages me and we start going back and forth, I essentially tell her that I'm into her and so we keep talking for awhile. Winter break is coming up, and I decided that I was going to try to actually hang out with her and see where it goes (I was 16 at the time, for the record). Then suddenly she's in a relationship with another dude. Ok, whatever. Don't talk to her much at all for the rest of the year, but we remain friends. She broke up with the dude like less than two months later. Didn't talk to her at all over the summer, but I know she started dating some other guy during the summer.
Now, it's fall 2013 and my senior year of high school. She ends up sitting at my lunch table on the third day of school and we catch up. She's still with the guy from summer and everything. We get really close again, and start texting each other and everything. During the beginning of 2014, she starts getting like super flirty. Trying to hold my hand, always giving me hugs, telling me she loved me and shit like that. Also bringing up memories from when we first started talking. Through all this, she's still with the other guy. Yeah, I missed this giant ass red flag. Well, kind of. I thought that was kind of shitty so I cut her off. Didn't talk to her until the night before the last day of high school.
I texted her that night asking her if she wanted to talk a little tomorrow, since it was the last day and we might not see each other. She says she definitely wants to, and she would like to go see a movie with me sometime. I did some creeping and realized she broke up with the other guy. So I told her I'd definitely be down for that. We talked for like two weeks and she said she wanted to have a bonfire with me sometime. Then she suddenly stops replying to me. I eventually get frustrated and stop trying, unfollow her, unfriend her, etc. Pretty much entirely forget about her.
Flash forward to 2015. In October of 2014, I dealt with the psycho bitch that I mentioned in another thread. I was also depressed as fuck, and had been for a couple years but it got really bad at this point. I started thinking about the girl and decide to text her again in February. We started talking a lot again, and decided to hang out during her spring break. Her spring break came, and I texted her asking her if she wants to hang out. No response. I texted her 3 or 4 times before she finally texted me back Thursday saying she'd like to hang out that night. I quickly got ready and we decided to go to the BDubs where she used to work. We spent 3 or 4 hours there, just talking and shit. She was driving, so she took me back and dropped me off, gave me a long hug and said "I missed you so much."
And then she went back to school. She goes to school about an hour away from me. After that night, we texted a lot more, and definitely more flirty. She was also the first person I ever opened up to about me feeling depressed. This is important to remember. Anyway, we keep texting on and off until early May. I got a text from her saying "Guess who comes home tomorrow!" We made plans to hang out a week later. I picked her up and we got ice cream, and then went to the park and sat and talked a little. Here's another red flag. She tells me about her ex. He lived in Cincinnati. She lived in Columbus. That's like a two hour drive. Apparently she drove two hours to spend the night at his place. They were sleeping in the same bed, and he tried to put her hand on his junk. According to her, she jerked away, punched him in the dick, and left. I'm calling major bullshit on this. But, whatever.
We decide to go back to my house to watch a movie or something. We end up cuddling and shit, then, long story short, I end up going for the kiss. And she's totally into it, so we start making out. I'm obviously super stoked on this, waited two and a half years and I'm totally into her. No, nothing else happened, but I thought it was awesome. On top of this, she's doing that super cute shit, like playing with my hair and brushing my hand. Held hands on the drive back to her house and ended up making out in her driveway for another like 15 minutes. Before she got out, she said, "Hey, remember when we first met and I said you were the cutest guy ever? It's still true."
Fast forward one week. We never really texted that much, but I was fine with it. I was in Kentucky with my dad, and she posts a video on Snapchat. She's at a bonfire. With a bunch of other dudes. Including her ex boyfriend. I'm obviously annoyed by this but I don't say anything. We hung out a week later, and she told me she about the bonfire. She said she got drunk and her ex boyfriend tried to fuck her but she totally denied him and definitely slept on the floor in a separate room and magically woke up with him next to her. (As I'm typing this, I'm getting pissed at how fucking oblivious I was). But whatever, we get some burritos and then go to the park. It was kind of awkward, like no hugs or kisses or hand holding, we didn't even mention it. But we go sit on this swing overlooking a lake, and she rests her head on me, then we start making out again and we're there for like an hour just talking and watching the sun set. It's getting cold, and she had plans with her girl friends, so I took her home. Still holding hands the entire way. On the way back, she's like "Hey... you're the cutest." And of course we get into this argument over who's the cutest like we did when we first met. Obnoxious as fuck, I know, but whatever. And we get into a competition to see who can kiss the other's hand the most. Yeah, this is embarrassing as fuck. Naturally we made out in her driveway for like 40 minutes, and it's getting intense but of course nothing more happens. I text her at like 3 am that night saying "Hey, you're the cutest *kiss emoji*." She didn't text me back.
I left on a trip to Florida the next day. A few days into it, I text her saying "Hey you, how's Ohio?" or something lame like that. Still no text back. I got back about a week and a half later. I decided to text her again and said "Hey, I'm back in Ohio, wanna get some ice cream and watch movies soon?" No reply. Text her again a couple days later "I'm back, I need to see you!" No reply. But she's posting on Snapchat and Instagram. Text her again "No text back?" Still no text. A week later, text her "Hey, so what's been going on?" No reply. Still posting to Snapchat and Instagram. I'm annoyed as fuck at this point, I mean I'm used to her taking a few days to text back or even forgetting to text back (I figure it's worth it since she's never on her phone when we hang out), but it's shitty to get no reply at all after what happened.
So, about 3 and a half weeks after the last time I saw her, I messaged her on Snapchat, asking her why she wasn't texting me back. She says, "I can explain. I dropped my phone in water and it broke and I can't afford a new one."
INSTANT FUCKING BULLSHIT ALERT
I'd understand if somehow she could only connect to wifi... but she was posting on Snapchat out in the woods and shit. And even then, she could have at least messaged me to tell me what happened. But I didn't say anything. In fact, I offered her my old phone. She didn't want it. I kept trying to message her on Snapchat. She rarely replied. But she still posted almost everyday. I asked her if she wanted to hang out, got no reply, and the next day she posted that she was on a "lunch date" with some other guy. I was annoyed as fuck but I just messaged her "Ok..." and unfollowed her, unfriended her, etc because seeing her post without replying put me in a bad mood. A week later, I tried talking to her. And then again. And then she blocked me on Snapchat.
At this point, you're probably like, holy shit dude, why are you still trying to talk to her? Well, originally it was because I really liked her and really cared about her. But then it got to the point where I wanted to call her out on lying about her phone and call her a cunt for fucking with me like she did. Remember the part where I said she was the first person I opened up to about feeling depressed? Yeah, that's where this comes in. I can't just let her get away with being that shitty of a person.
So now, I messaged her on Facebook. Twice. No reply. I'm pissed at this point. Decided it would be a good idea to message her calling her a dumb cunt. Instantly regretted it, but Facebook says she still hasn't seen it. I just pretended like it never happened, and DM'd her on Instagram yesterday. She looked at it but didn't say anything. She still hasn't unfollowed me or blocked me or anything.
Now I'm just trying to talk to her before she goes back to school. For some reason I just feel like I have to. Don't really know how to get her to talk, though. I know she's gonna pull the "You're crazy, you kept messaging me!" thing. But maybe if she didn't lead me on and fuck with me and lie and actually replied, I wouldn't keep messaging her. I feel like she knows she's a lying bitch and doesn't want me to confront her. Whatever.
TL;DR: You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen, you know Comet and Cupid and Donner and Blitzen, but do you recall the dumbest lying cunt of all?